My
wife and I have a combined family of six children, all
of whom attended (to their great good benefit) fine
private/independent schools. My experience at home, and
with children over thirty-two years in a variety of schools,
has led me to conclude that humor, patience, affirming
the best in young people, keeping balance in life, remembering
to be an adult oneself, discovering that we all are earthly
vessels and need forgiveness, and relying not simply
on ourselves but trusting in our Creator God, are the
ingredients that contribute mightily to positive/ creative/
loving parenting and healthy child development.
One
of the joys of working in schools is that each year has
a life of its own and is unique, just as each child
is
unique and will grow and develop in a special way.
I strongly advise, urge and proclaim to teachers to avoid
putting any child/ student in a box. Just because a
child
functions one way one year, does not mean he will do
the same forever! It is absolutely thrilling to see children
develop and mature. They remain in boxes only if we place
them there. My prayer is that parents avoid labeling,
or putting their own children in boxes - "she's
the fast one, he's the slow one, she always has trouble
with math, he is the reader in the family... etc." Children,
like all of us, often fulfill the expectations others
place on them.
This is a special time in the life of your children. You are giving them one of the greatest gifts possible, a wonderful educational experience. It is a privilege for me to be a part of it. I am thoroughly pleased and excited about the quality of people who will be joining Canterbury. My short time here has convinced me that everyone will be as warm and welcoming and helpful to new staff and students as you have been with me.
As you are all well aware, we are a young and growing school. You can play a vital role in the development of Canterbury in a variety of ways. One very specific concrete way is to share with friends, neighbors and acquaintances, your enthusiasm for the quality educational experience your child has encountered here.
All the best,
Dick The Reverend C. Richard Cadigan, Head of School
The Canterbury Episcopal School
